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The relationship between people is a more complex social phenomenon, different disciplines of interpersonal understanding is different. Sociology that refers to interpersonal relations in society in general in the direct interaction between people ; social psychology that identify relationships between the psychological and human relations , which means that is the psychological distances ; behavioral science that interpersonal refers to the relationship between people 's behavior , reflecting the people's social interaction and contact situation.

Relationships are inseparable from any cognitive, emotional and behavioral three factors . Have any of these three elements is the attitude of a psychological tendency . From the perspective of interpersonal communication , which is the attitude of the three elements of communication . For interpersonal communicative attitude has an extremely important significance.

富兰克曾林说：留心你的思想，思想可以变成言语；留心你的言语，言语可以变成行动；留心你的行动，行动可以变成习惯；留心你的习惯，习惯可以变成性格；留心你的性格，因为性格可以决定命运。

Frank Zeng Lin , said: Watch your thoughts , ideas can be turned into words ; Watch your words, and words can be turned into action ; Watch your actions , the action can become a habit ; Watch your habits, habits can become a character ; Watch your character, because the character can determine destiny.

认知是人际关系的前提条件人际关系实在人与人的交往过程中，通过彼此相互感知、识别、理解而建立的关系。人际关系总是从对人的认知开始的，彼此根本不认识、毫不认知，就不可能建立人际关系。人际关系的调节也是与认知过程分不开的。

1 cognitive prerequisite interpersonal relationships is really the process of interaction between people , through the perception of each other , identify, understand and build relationships . Relationships always from the beginning of human cognition , did not know each other , not cognitive , it is impossible to build relationships . Interpersonal regulation is also associated with cognitive processes inseparable.

2 Emotion is a major regulator of interpersonal relationships in the psychological factor is always satisfied or dissatisfied with each other , such as affection or aversion is characterized by emotional states . If there is no emotional factors involved in the regulation , the relationship is unthinkable. Emotional factors is associated with people 's physical needs , to meet needs for generating positive emotional experience things . Regulating interpersonal emotional factors ( ranging from intuitive impression caused by the general sense of emotion to intellect , morality and other senior emotions ) have a different level and intensity . Its role in regulating the level of development of the general trend is higher , the greater regulatory role .

3 . Behavior means of communication in interpersonal relationships , whether it is cognitive factors or emotional factors, have manifested by conduct . Behavior refers to the language, manners, style , facial expressions, gestures and all other manifestations of personality external actions , which is to establish and develop relationships means of communication . Generally speaking, different relationships , human knowledge and understanding , emotional experience and a variety of external behavior and so may be different. And this difference would affect each other's relationships.