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mal love. Conclusion Although Mother Fixation was a sensitive subject in the literature world that people seldom refer to. It exists in the society as a common phenomenon that it has distorted the soul of mothers and sons, even damaged the family, which also obeys the ethics of human being. As to the author of Sons and Lovers, D.H.lawrence, Mother Fixation made him so blind that he did not take care of the moral principles and did not know that he had come to the woman’s family and left it broken. The novel Sons and Lovers also ended with a tragedy with the death of being mentally and physically exhausted of Mrs. Moreland the failure of Paul’s love. In our daily life, Mother Fixation is a common phenomenon, even if many people do not want to mention it or they do not accept the definition of Mother Fixation. The son who has Mother Fixation is lack of his own thoughts and enterprising spirit because he believes that his mother is his sanctuary and sunshine that never declines. Even when he gets married, his mother is the only person he can rely on not other person. So when there is conflict in his mother and wife he will stand with his mother, go against his wife. As to the mother who has Mother Fixation lavishes her lover upon her son, she controls his behavior and thoughts that she wishes that her son will never go against her. The son is her everything that she is afraid of losing him. As in China, most of the family conflict cause between the mothers and the daughters-in-law. One of the most important reasons is to fight for the domination of the husbands or sons. Once the daughters-in-law come to the family, the mothers will have a sense of tension that the daughters-in-law will take their place to love or control their sons that they are losing their sons. Gradually, the mothers will do something difficult for the daughters-in-law and say something to slander them before their sons, and then the family conflict arouses and the tragedy appears. In order to create a happy life and a harmonious society, we should pay our attention to Mother Fixation and deal with it well because Mother Fixation is a kind of abnormal human beings’ love and we should pursue normal love. Bibliography [1] Bernard Knox. Oedipus the King. Pocket Press, 1994. [2] Fan Cunzhong. History of English Literature [M]. Sichuan People’s Press,1983. [3] A Modern Chinese-English Dictionary. Beijing: Foreign Language Teaching and Research Press,2003. [4] Guo Qunying. British Literature [M]. Foreign Language Teaching and Education Press，2001. [5] [6] Wang Shouren. Selected Readings in British Literature [M]. Higher Education Press，2001. [7] Brenda Maddox．有妇之夫—劳伦斯的生活[M]．海邹伦，李传家，蔡曙光译．中央编译出版社，1999． [8] D．H．Lawrence． Sons and Lovers．贺广贤注释，西安：世界图书出版西安公司，2005． [9] 巴金.寒夜.上海文艺出版社出版，2005. [10] 弗洛伊德．图腾与禁忌．文[M]．良文化译，中央编译出版社，2005． [11] 弗洛伊德．精神分析引论[M]．高觉敷译，商务印书馆，1984． [12] 基思•萨嘉．被禁止的作家--D．H．劳伦斯传[M]．王增澄译，辽宁教育出版社，1998． [13] 诺埃尔．文学文本的精神分析[M]．李红书译, 天津人民出版社，2004． [14] 张定全．新编简明英国文学史[M]．上海外语教育出版社，2002． [15] 吴伟仁．英国文学史及选读[M]．外语教学与研究出版社，1998． [16] 王佐良，祝玉，李品伟欧洲文化入门[M]．北京：外语教学与研究出版社，2004．