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ife can become better and better. Therefore, it’s not a choice between right and wrong, but one between ideal and practical. It’s no use to spend much more time in working instead of caring about family members. No matter how successful a man is in the work, he is still a loser if not having a happy family. Perfect family life is the final goal for everyone. B. Marriage’s Being Not Only for Love, but for Benefit “How much money do you have?” ”Do you have a beautiful house?” ”What’s the brand of your car?” These questions are familiar to us and they are frequently used in daily life. Nowadays, when two persons fall in love with each other, they should pay much attention to the reality. In some occasions, many lovers can not get married only because of lacking the martial support. In last generation, people get married and create a new family just because of love. But people’s attitude towards love and family has changed gradually with the developing of the society. Many people hold the idea that money is much more important in marriage than emotion. Everyone has his own idea towards marriage and love, we should not criticize their opinions. We can not but admit that love and marriage can’t last long without the material support. But this doesn’t mean that benefit is more important than emotion. People should establish the right attitude towards the relationship between love and benefit. It’s well known that family is the final arrangement for everyone. The biggest difference between home and hotel is that hotel is just a place for people to rest while home is full of love. So the family needs all the members to manage for it’s not the business for one single person. C。The Children’s Becoming Indifferent and Rebellious, Not Wanting to Communicate with Parents Nowadays, more and more parents find that their children become indifferent and rebellious. Facing such problems, the parents always blame the children and criticize the teachers. In their opinions, they have spend much money in supporting their education and the responsibility for training the children have been passed to the schools and teachers. So if the children become rebellious, the parents will blame the schools and teachers immediately. Most of them doesn’t realize that it’s the defects of the family education. And it’s also the defects of the whole Chinese family education. Talking about the defects, we can summarize them as the following points: Firstly, doting on the children and neglecting the education of non-intelligence elements. To love the children is the essentiality of the parents, but cosseting is the original love creating by the human beings. The doting degree of Chinese parents towards their children is situated in the first several places all around the world. Such kind of love is abnormal in the human beings. In such condition, the abnormal love will be enlarged and such ignorance will be changed into chains, and favor will be changed into trap. The strict Chinese parents’ neglecting the education of non-intelligence element is another terrible phenomenon besides cosseting. In this aspect, according to their own thinking mode, many parents snuff out the children’s non-intelligent elements including mentality, emotion, volition and interest. Three or four years old or even earlier, children are forced to learn Chinese characters, recite poems and practice mathematics. Playing is the nature for the children while ignored by the parents. The children