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’s self-respect, self-confidence and the ability of creating is destroyed by learning dead knowledge blindly and passively under the orders of the parents. However, child is indeed the child, no matter how many excuses in their hearts to hate such kind of teaching mode, they couldn’t find any excuse to defy their parents. They could only obey the parents who give in to the Chinese traditional culture. Secondly, ignoring the establishment of the personality of independence. There is an interesting story about education focusing on the differences between Chinese and Western family education. When a Chinese child gives his drawing to the parents, he will ask: “ You see, is my picture like or not?” In the same case, the foreign child will ask their parents: “Is my picture good or not?” Although there’s only little difference in using several words., in fact it has large distinction. In the same condition, there are two different answers, then two kinds of educational manners and thoughts are obvious. It’s well known that the Chinese people are wise since ancient times, but it’s also well known that they lack the abilities of creating, variation and competition. Parents are the first teachers for the children, but if the teachers are educated in such an abnormal way, their old thoughts haven’t been changed with the development of the society. When the task of education turns into their responsibilities, what kind of result the next generation will face is distinct. The children haven’t been trained to own the personality of independence in such malignant circulation. In the writer’s opinion, the Chinese children have penetrative understanding and feeling , it’s not the fault of the parents, but the defect of Chinese family education system. Thirdly, father is far away from the family education. In Chinese traditional culture, men are considered to support the family, they are free from the children’s family education. In the childhood, without the help of father, the children will become timid. But there is another phenomenon in other families that men really take part in family education, but the methods are not advisable. They hold the idea that good children are trained by the stick. It is a terrible transmigration that the children are trained by caning and they will use the same methods to train their children after being parents. The parents should find problems from themselves instead of blaming the children and teachers. Family is the responsibility for every member, men should not be free from family education. In fact , father plays a more important role in the formation of the children’s personalities. Men have been endowed with many crowns in the world , but the crown of father should be the most important one. D. Some Useful Methods for the Fathers The writer pays more attention to the image of a man as a father and the audiences can learn some useful methods from the hero Guido. The Jewish people have their special ways to train their children. As everyone knows that Jewish people are the most wise people in the world. The population of Jewish people shares only 0.2% of it in the world, however, owns nearly 20% in the Nobel prize winners, which wins respect from other people. It has deep connection with their education style, especially their family education. From the film Life Is Beautiful, the audiences can learn some different ways to teach their children. As a Jewish father, Guido uses his specific ways to educate