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e do not need to say special thanks intimate , small things do not need to say thanks , we are in life, not willing to directly express our gratitude , but willing to keep in mind . In fact , sincere heartfelt gratitude shining glory of human nature .
Is the opposite of criticism and praise . Under normal circumstances , you should make more praise , less criticism , criticism is negative stimuli . Usually only when the intention of goodness , in line with the fact that , at the current methods , be possible to have a positive effect , in order to promote each other's progress. Criticism should pay attention to situations and the environment, respond to the wrong things , you can not negate a person produces , this will dampen the enthusiasm and self-esteem each other , one thing should now instead of things in the past again turned out, wording attitude should be friendly and sincere .

3 . Active exchanges . For a prime college students, we need to have a wealth of interpersonal world and in the world to help and be helped , compassion and being compassion, love and be loved , to share joy and bear the pain . In social interaction , those who take the initiative originating with the exchanges , the initiative to accept others who are more confident in interpersonal relationships , active exchanges scarce due to two reasons. First, the lack of confidence, fear of being rejected, fear of others not like themselves expect to understand, acknowledge , and thus put themselves in a situation of distress , hurt his self-esteem. In fact , the problem is far less severe than we imagined , because human relations , both sides need to adapt to the need to support interpersonal Strange Situation . Second, people have many misconceptions in interpersonal relationships , such as the first greeting with others , in others it seems inferior, "Those who are good at communication both ways , are some sophisticated, some sleek ", " I am so trouble others , people will think I incompetent , will hate me " and so on. Students active exchanges also very important, especially when faced with interpersonal crisis, the initiative to explain , to eliminate misunderstanding and re- establish a good relationship is very important.

4 . Empathy . Relationships between people is the essence of emotional contact and communication , emotional communication more fully , both sides have a greater psychological field , the more intimate relationships . Empathy is not sympathy, but from both sides with the same inner feelings in common . People are empiricist , understanding of others is highly dependent on their direct experience , therefore , self- experience of the rich, is a necessary prerequisite for understanding and empathy .

5 to help others. Psychologists have found to help and mutual help start relationships, not only easy to establish a good first impression , but the psychological distance between people can quickly shortened, so quickly build up a good relationship . Everyday life adversity is indicative of this. The so-called "timely " psychological effects of icing on the cake is very important.

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